Looking for a man, not too vanilla, can be into BD but not SM. Not looking for a..

I will be naturally submissive to a man I can trust to lead. I would appreciate a man who's quietly confident but not arrogant, decisive with great control. Freaky, sincere and fun. Photos of guys in women's underwear seriously turn me off, just need a nice tall man with a hairy chest and a naughty glint in his eyes, maybe you!

p.s. just incase it's a deal-breaker, I do not do anal, sorry

50, Straight