Looking for a dom that will treat me with respect.

New to scene, happily married but have need for domination and have a high sex drive. Discretion is a must. Prefer 35 to 45 yrs. Love spas and massages. Not into pain, but...Wouldn't say no to women...
After a few conversations here, I was told that I am looking for a pleasure dom/me. Don't bother messaging if that is not you.
I am looking for something special, but not quite sure what yet...I guess I will know when I see or feel it.

I guess the best way i would have to describe myself is that i am a lioness, powerful and capable on my own, but looking for an even more powerful partner/lion that treats me with respect and to whom i can give my submission to, because a lioness will only submit to a true lion in the bedroom. Lions are sexy intense cats and lionesses melt when in the presence of one. Can you turn me into a wet puty mess?

96% Rope bunny
96% Primal (Prey)
95% Submissive
79% Brat
69% Experimentalist
47% Vanilla

43, Bi-curious