Looking for an under 45 assertive male

I’m a busy independent lady in need of being taken in hand. Wouldn’t rule out hook ups although pref long term potential

Great company, funny, smart reasonable looks.
Have a body being utterly wasted

I have a fairly specific type, straight men,  35-45, dislike too much bodily hair, not into pen pals.

Like meeting for coffee and kisses before taking anything further. No chemistry no fuck, sorry

44, Straight